Wordless Wednesday

Natural make-up looks... We like it!

the fresh perspective...

A POEM I do my thing and you do your thing

I do my thing, and you do your thing.

I am not in this world to live up to your expectations

And you are not in this world to live up to mine.

You are you and I am I, if by chance we find each other, it’s beautiful.

If not, it can’t be helped.

Frederick S. Perls

That's the fresh perspective...

Wordless Wednesday

Mid-length ombré hair...  We like it.

Henry

I'd like to take this time to say a few words about my dad Henry.  He hasn't always been the 'dad' that I wanted but he has ALWAYS been there.  I'm his oldest child and only daughter so we have a special connection.

Regardless of sex/gender, I feel like a father plays a very important role in a child's life.  They aren't always the nurturer, but they are an important part of the foundation that our  youth develop from.  Like my mom, my dad played a great role in how I turned out as a woman.  I feel like I realize now, as an adult, how much more we have connected as I have grown.

I need to be more open and involved in my dad's life.  I also should not wait for hallmark to remind me when I should show him my total appreciation.  It's too bad that father's day and mother's day make recognizing our parents into a once a year thing.  Oh well, it is what it is, but no matter what, I'm grateful for his life and I'm blessed to be his daughter.

Peace

Wordless Wednesday

Cute children... Yes!

...all my children.

It was three years ago when we had our last family portrait done and as I looked through the album I couldn't believe how fast three years had gone by.  I know that time has passed because of all great things that have happened between then and now, but when I look at the images of my 5 month old and my 18 month old babes, I'm shocked!

They are 5 and 4 this year and are growing, growing.  One will be starting school in the fall and the other will cease to be my baby and become a big sister by the end of the summer.  Our family is growing and I am excited/nervous/anxious/relieved all at the same time.  Having children can be trying and tasking but there are times when I am truly in awe of them and am thankful they are mine.

Over the past week I've had numerous conversations with people about children and it seems that nowadays having no kid or one kid might simply be enough for some.  I am a firm believer in following your heart.  You know yourself and what you think you can or cannot handle.  The decision to have children, in my opinion, shouldn't be taken so lightly.  Think it through.  How will your life change?  Is your partner into it (if you have one)?  What type of lifestyle do you yearn for?  Do children fit into that lifestyle?  Sometimes I think we just need to let people decide for themselves.

One more, and I will close the chapter on babies.  It's been a wild ride but I don't regret a thing...

Peace